Last night – what we didn’t realize would be our last night in Timisoara for now – we listened to Leonard Cohen’s Going Home. As I write my last blog from Timisoara the words below sit in front of me and capture my mood.
Going home
Without my sorrow
Going home
Sometime tomorrow
Going home
To where it’s better
Than before
We met so many wonderful people in Timisoara and wish we could stay longer. As I returned a few books today to the American Studies library at West University in Timisoara and walked the empty corridors I was struck by how grateful I was to have this chance to spend time in this place with these people and to share this experience with Rebecca. COVID – 19 and its consequences are bigger than any of us and it is time to give in to the reality of the situation and join the many who have had their own experiences cut short or their lives changed in ways they are only beginning to understand.
I am going home “without my sorrow” because this experience will live forever in my heart. It will continue to give back to me and from me to others. Cristina, Ludovic, Karola, Horia, Titsa, Laura, Mihai and…so very many others. I will never look at a map like the one below in the same way.
We are going home “sometime tomorrow.” Early this morning we talked with a travel company working with the Fulbright program. A kind, patient, and very efficient agent put together an itinerary. Tonight we fly to Bucharest and then tomorrow from Bucharest to Amsterdam to Atlanta and to Kansas City, arriving around midnight Tuesday. Friends are bringing Rebecca’s car to the Kansas City Airport and we will drive to Decorah, stopping briefly in Clarinda. And then self-isolating.
“To where it is better than before,” somehow, I think this is so. A mess in America I know, just as it is in Romania, with people out of work, isolated, anxious and fearful. People have died, others will get sick and die. Maybe you, maybe me. I don’t know what to make of all of this. I have no answers so how could home be “better than before?” Except for this, when we go home we know we will have two weeks of self-isolation. Millions of others are doing the same, mostly without anyone following them around to see if they are doing the right thing, meaning the right thing for others as well as for themselves.
We left America as individuals; we are coming home as Americans.
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Hello Jack, we began to feel like we just don’t know enough about what will happen in the next couple of months and worried there might become a point where we could not get back into USA. We felt very safe in Romania and stayed as long as we could but each day brought something new and most- if not all, by now – Fulbrighters were leaving. Romania is a wonderful country and Timisoara had become our home. Even now, as we sit in the Timisoara airport, we feel torn. Take care Paul
I am deeply sorry that you had to go! It was wonderful having you both here. I’m glad we can continue our courses online. Maybe you can come back sometime after this virus crisis passes and we could meet again. Best wishes and take care of you!
Thank you Alex; we do plan to come back. I wish you all the best in your studies and what comes after. Take care.
Safe travels Dear friends!
Thank you Jeanie