It’s Good To Remind Ourselves That We’re the Frogs

The 2024 American Presidential Election

Le Creuset pot on stove top.
Photo by the author

We’ve Known the Water is Warming, and We’ve Been Trying To Get Out of the Pot Before It Boils Over

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It turns out that frogs try to scramble out of the pot when the cool water starts to warm.

Of course, they do.

I never believed the literalness of the Boiling Frog story nor its application as a metaphor for how too many Americans have gotten used to Donald Trump’s offenses, so worry less about the consequences of a second Trump term.

The pot is slowly boiling, but most of us climbed out of it long ago.

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I imagine a conversation with my Republican father, who died of sinus cancer at 71 in 1993.

I begin by telling him that his Party just nominated for the third time an adjudicated rapist and convicted felon who had been impeached twice during his first term.

Mr. Trump introduced himself as a candidate in 2015 by saying this aboutSenator John McCain, someone my father admired:

He’s not a war hero. He was a war hero because he was captured; I like people who weren’t captured.

And, a couple of days ago, in a stump speech to a Christian group of supporters, Trump said

You won’t have to do it anymore…It’ll be fixed; it’ll be fine; you won’t have to vote anymore.

Finally, I pulled out my phone and showed him a photo of the Trump-encouraged insurrectionists on January 6, 2021.

This is a photo of the storming of the American Capital on January 6, 2021.
Photo from Wikimedia Commons

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After exclaiming, “You can talk on that thing? And load photos!” my father said

What has happened to my Party and my country?

My reawakened father is gobstruck by the iPhone’s capabilities and what has happened to American politics. He is the frog placed in boiling water.

But that’s not true for most Americans. We’ve seen the political Mr. Trump up close for almost a decade, and we know the pot has been slowly coming to a boil.

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In the summer of 2016, Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg in an interview said:

He is a faker…He has no consistency about him. He says whatever comes to his head at the moment. He really has an ego…I can’t imagine what this place would be — I can’t imagine what the country would be — with Donald Trump as our President.

During the fall of 2016, I taught a Political Science seminar to 20 undergraduate students on the Trump/Clinton presidential campaign. After the Access Hollywood tape, I recall a 90-minute class discussion. Three of the students were men on the Luther College football team. All were self-identified Republicans. One young woman asked the men if they had ever heard locker room talk of the sort Donald Trump engaged in on the tape. Each said no, never, not like that.

At the end of the discussion, another young man in the back of the class raised his hand and said, almost chokingly, precisely my dead father’s imagined response.

I don’t know what is happening in my country.

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In the 2016 American presidential election, 66 million Americans supported Hillary Clinton and 63 million Donald Trump. Trump won the Electoral College because he carried Wisconsin, Michigan, and Pennsylvania by 79,000 votes. Four years later, Biden flipped those states (by only 44,000 votes) in the national ballot count, 81 million to 74 million.

majority of Americans have always viewed Donald Trump unfavorably.

The frogs have been climbing out of the warming water for years.

When Democratic Party leaders pressured Biden to withdraw from the race, the number one reason was their fear that he could not beat Donald Trump.

The reason Vice President Kamala Harris was able to consolidate her control over the Democratic Party so quickly was the need for the Party to unify to keep the pot from boiling over.

America is an evenly divided country. Many of my Trump-supporting friends do not believe the pot is even warming. Or that it will boil over with a woke-infused flame.

And our unique Electoral College mechanism, which at this historical moment favors the rural-dominated Republican Party, could produce another Trump victory.

History is full of contingencies. Imagine, for example, if there had been no Trump-Biden debate a month ago or if this year’s Democratic Party convention had been first in July.

President Biden would now be the nominee.

But that didn’t happen. People acted. President Biden bent to the will of not only Nancy Pelosi but the majority of Democrats who have been saying for two years that he is too old.

Like the frogs, we know what we see and feel.

The water is boiling.

It’s time to turn off the burner.

A Few Hours in a Smaller Iowa Town

And a way forward in our divided country.

Photo by the author of the best burger in Iowa

Right around the corner

We asked the young woman behind the counter at Ossian’s Silver Springs Golf Club whether they served lunch.

Mike and I had just finished 18 grueling holes, and I needed to hand in the key to our gas-powered cart.

It’s not easy for two mid-seventies guys to get in and out over 90 times each.

Besides, we didn’t just play golf. Mike’s a Republican, and I’m a Democrat, so we talked politics. “What do you think, Mike? Do Democrats or Republicans cheat more on the links?” I asked just before he tried that short putt for the win on number 17.

Ossian, in northeast Iowa, is 11 miles from Decorah, where we live.

Its population is 800, one-tenth of metropolitan Decorah.

The counterwoman said, “No, but Bambino’s is just around the corner. They have great hamburgers.”

So, we got into Mike’s grey Toyota pick-up and headed past the Lutheran Church down to Main Street, where we turned right. Left would have taken us to Calmar.

After three blocks, there was still no Bambino’s, and we were fast-running out of town on the way to Postville. I spotted an older couple coming out of Ace Hardware, and Mike angled the truck up to their car.

“We’re looking for Bambino’s.”

“Turn around, and it’s right around the corner.”


Sue and Ron

So, it was. Two junctions down from Ace. We finally spotted the tiny Bambino lettering in the lower left-hand corner of the only window in the brick facade. Bambinos was a bar.

We walked in at 12:30 and out at 2:30, entertained, enlightened, and well-fed.

Co-owner Sue was sitting at the end of the bar that opened into a kitchen area. Her partner and husband, Ron, came over to take our order. Two older guys were sitting at a corner table, and their counterparts were at the other end of the bar.

Fox News, silent, looked down on us from just to the left of Sue. Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu had just entered the House chamber with the scroll “Democrats boycott the speech.”

I don’t remember exactly when we learned Sue and Ron’s names or that they owned the place, but it was sometime in the first five minutes.

“The young woman at the golf course recommended your hamburgers,” Mike said.

“Where are you guys from?’’ asked Sue.

When we said Decorah, she fired back,

People from Decorah don’t come to Ossian, even when our hamburger was named the best in Iowa.


The best hamburger

I liked Sue immediately.

She exuded good-soulness before I knew why.

And her feistiness reminded me of my mom and myself when faced with the perceived superiority of big-city and coastal elites. Many of us in flyover America feel THAT part of Donald’s appeal.

We asked her to tell us their “best hamburger” story while I watched Ron frying our orders off her right shoulder. You can read the official story here.

This is Sue’s shortened version.

By the way, 10 minutes into her narrative, three things happened. Ron delivered our burgers, with mine being the one in the photo. It was as good as it looked. Netanyahu started his speech. And a large picture frame crashed down on the table just vacated by two older guys. Five minutes earlier, it would have been a crime scene. Unflappable, Sue said they’d take care of that later.

When Bambino’s won the award in 2021 against 300 Iowa restaurants, they sold 160 burgers the month before victory and 4600 the month after.

“What was that like?” we asked.

“It was hell. We run this place by ourselves. But we raised our price from $5 to $8. Plus, it allowed me to sell more of my children’s books.”

Photo by the author

An author

This is Sue’s first book. The second was just published, and the third is almost finished.

Leaning over the counter, she read this one to us, a captivated, not captured, audience.

While Bibi gesticulated on the screen.

Ron began to clean up the mess from the collapsed picture.

Mike purchased both books for his granddaughter, and I bought them for Rebecca’s seventh grandchild, Alice. I’m honored to be a grand friend.


A way forward

Even for those of us who live in small Iowa towns, it’s too damn easy to patronize, if not in person, then in thought those who live in even smaller towns.

And America’s politics doesn’t help.

But that lets us off the hook.

We’re, each of us, America’s politics.

The next time you’re in a small town, anywhere, go into that shop, yes, that one, right around the corner.

You might learn something.

Mike and me. I’m the tall one.

Do You Remember Your Teenage Bedroom?

In 1963, the Beach Boys harmonized their way into mine, and a memory that lingers.

An arrow on the photo points to the bedroom of my childhood home.
Photo by the author of his childhood home. The arrow points to his bedroom.

Published in Entertain, Enlighten and Empower.

Memories

Memories are like God. They become real once we give them meaning.

What was it like to be 14? Was his memory of these incidents the same at 21 as it would be at 50? Or today, on the cusp of 75?

Or do memories change, like our perception of God, as did his family’s front lawn after his two brothers and he sold their childhood home after their mother died at 96 in 2017?

Before the new owners built the horror in the photo, the lawn was grass at a 10% gradient.

That required weekly mowing.

A task his dad assigned to his eldest son in his 14th year. His engineer dad had attached a rope to the green Lawnboy mower so he could cut the grass vertically, up and down.

The first time he tried this method, the rope broke. The priests — yes, in 1963, there were three priests at Sacred Heart parish — and nuns — yes, seven Habits in eight elementary years, taught him one version of a God who commanded him to honor his mother and father.

So he discarded the rope, mowed crosswise, and didn’t tumble into the street.

He honored his father by choosing a different path. It would have been a Bar Mitzvah moment if he had been Jewish instead of Catholic.

Later that day, his cousins Jim, Dan, and Terry arrived from Des Moines. When Jim, his teenage contemporary, walked into his bedroom, the room behind the dormer in the photo, The Beach Boys’ new 45 In My Room, was playing on his record player.

Yesterday, 61 years later, when he listened again, the polished harmony of “There’s a world where I can go and tell my secrets to” came attached to a memory linked to a feeling that has dogged him for six decades.

That feeling has never gone away, even though the evidence from his life would easily convict it by a jury of peers.

But being a boy, despite being flush with the lawnmower victory, he didn’t admit this secret to his room or anyone else.

The bedroom

He didn’t discuss it with Peter, his twelve-year-old brother who shared the bedroom, or with his parents.

Or with Pat, his eight-year-old brother who, for some reason, never understood, had the bedroom behind the other dormer, ALL TO HIMSELF.

The record player lay on a table between Peter and his beds. Next to it, an orange transistor radio sat on his side of the surface. He had gotten it for his 13th birthday. It opened up a private world of rock and roll introduced by disc jockey Lou Gutenberg of KSTT in Davenport, Iowa.

On a table just inside the bedroom door squatted a large window fan. During hot summer nights, the dormer window, two feet from his bed, would be open, the thin cotton drapes fluttering, the fan rumbling, and he would be alone with his thoughts and a single white earphone in his left ear. Lou introduced him to In My Room. It meant something to him because he didn’t have a room alone and didn’t speak out loud about his feelings of inferiority.

Instead, he lied to Jim about General Science.

Track II

Until he took the Graduate Record Exam at 27, he never scored well on achievement tests such as the Iowa Test for Basic Skills. One year, he’d be up and the next down, sometimes way down.

As a result, when he started high school in 1963, he was put in General Science and World History, two Track II courses, for students who likely would not be going to college.

All his friends at his private Catholic school, every single one, were only in Track I subjects. The same was true of Jim at his school in Des Moines.

At 14, he was oblivious to a lot in his little world. But he knew exactly what Track II meant. He felt the II on his forehead as he read about Hawthorne’s Hester Prynne’s A of Shame in Track I English that year.

So when Jim started to talk about his first year in high school, he saw his science notebook lying on his bed. What should he say? After the first few weeks of school, he knew Mr. Jepsen’s Science was easy. And he knew it was easy because school officials and teachers had such low expectations of students like him.

Later in life, he would understand that figuring out how to mow a 10% gradient lawn horizontally and seeing the context of his school’s tracking system would be signs of intelligence.

But all he could muster in that bedroom at 14 was an “I can’t believe how hard my Science class is” as he held his red science notebook up, far enough away so that Jim would not be tempted to snatch it away.

The mystic chords of memory

I no longer believe in the God of my childhood.

The God who commanded me to honor my Father.

However, try as I might, I can’t leave God behind. The religion section of my library includes well-worn covers.

The most worn is the late Protestant theologian Marcus Borg’s The Heart of Christianity, which describes two worldviews, religious and non-religious.

The religious worldview believes there is a nonmaterial level of reality, a MORE.

In my 75th year, the forest is more compelling than the trees.

I attended my high school class of 1967’s 55-year reunion two years ago.

Our graduating class was around 250.

One of my classmates, Diane, approached me and said, “You know, Paul, you and I are the only ones in our class who earned a Ph.D.”

As we chatted, I thought about that 14-year-old kid desperate to hide the shame of not being smart enough from his cousin.

And how that desperation to prove oneself has never gone away.

Next month, a few extended family members are meeting for lunch. Jim will be there.

Whenever we meet, we talk about shared experiences growing up. About a year ago, he told me his father, my Uncle Al, made him pay for his high school education at the private school he attended. So, Jim worked late nights and weekends at the Post Office.

All of a sudden, I saw my cousin in a different light.

In his First Inaugural Address, Abraham Lincoln spoke of the “mystic chords of memory.”

My teenage bedroom memories are linked to a chord not so mystic.

Still, they’ve traveled a long way accompanied by a soundtrack.

Lincoln used his interpretation of American history to explain America to its people.

To give them a sense of who they are.

My memories do the same for me.

I hope yours does for you.

Penance

Today’s random word is anxiety; the genre is historical fiction.

Photo by the author of a Slavery Sculpture by Kwame-Akosto-Bamforr, from The National Memorial for Peace and Justice, Montgomery, Alabama.

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James: “Sometimes I feel like I am doing penance.”

Edward: “How long was your third great-grandfather governor of Mississippi?”

James: “Four years, 1904–1908. He was a complicated man. But a racist, even by the standards of the time.”

Edward: “You’re not like him.”

James: “After we close, at dusk, I walk around the grounds full of anxiety. It’s like I’m holding something back.”

Edward: “Hey, you’re the only white guy on the staff. Are you thinking about quitting?

James: “While walking around last night, I stopped at the Akoto-Bamfo sculpture and wept.

I’m sticking around.”

Edward: “Thank You.”

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I took this photo from the Rosa Parks Library and Museum in Montgomery, Alabama. You can read about James K. Vardaman here.

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The Impossible Yearning To Be Young, Flexible, and Steady Again

Please, Joe, do the right thing.

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Humans can learn a lot from sitting on a back porch.

At least, this human did.

He thinks he’s superior, somehow not a part of nature, because he surrounds himself with wire mesh and sits 15 feet above the action in a cushioned chair while watching a parade.

Today, there was a coyote, fox, turkey, squirrel, and a herd of deer: doe, buck, and two fawns.

The fawn in the photo lagged. And then she hinged, chomped, paused, reset, and gamboled after her family.

The mother and father did not need such antics. They’d been there and done that.

Unfortunately, he can imagine himself 50 instead of a month away from 75. Or even, on a good day, with a knee bend or two, 15.

He knows the lies he tells himself.

And wants to believe the lies others tell themselves.

And tell us.

If they can do it, so can he.

But he has friends who are 80 and can’t do things they could have done five years earlier. And he knows what he can’t do today, what he could do five years ago.

He’s a Democrat who thinks Joe Biden has been a good President. Until the night of June 27, he thought Joe Biden was like LeBron James, the exception that proves the rule. At 39, James is playing the game of basketball outside the normal boundaries of age.

Instead, he saw Joe as the formerly great Willie Mays at 41 misplaying two fly balls in the 1973 World Series.

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He knows what he saw on June 27; he’s no fool.

So now joins with most Democrats who believe President Biden should step aside. (source)

The temptation is for all of us to believe we are the exceptions.

We see ourselves, again, like that fawn.

Fortunately, we can also imagine a different outcome where we see our lies for what they are.

We can imagine ourselves on a back porch, observing how nature works — admitting our yearnings.

Seeing how these can so quickly morph into self-deceptions.

And then thinking:

The other guy lies to us all the time. Probably to himself as well.

I should be different.

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Note to my readers: I am torn about the “Should Joe Biden step aside question.” I take one side in this story. Robert Hubbell provides a compelling argument for why President Biden should remain the nominee.

Paul Gardner – Mediu

A New Deal For America

And one Don can’t refuse.

Today’s random word is closely.

The Washington Monument, from Wikimedia Commons

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The Washington Monument

Sunrise

Joe: “They were meant to be forgotten — even Washington and Lincoln. Mr. President, thank you for meeting me. We didn’t shake hands last week. Let’s remedy that now.”

Don: “You’ve got a firm grip, Joe. My people can’t ever know about this meeting.”

Joe: “Don, look closely at me. I’m old and tired; I can’t do this anymore. I will soon be forgotten. Just like them, and so will you.

Don: “What do you want from me?”

Joe: “I’ll pardon you for everything. You’ll drop out. I’ll do the same.”

Don: “It’s a deal, Mr. President.”

We Watched the American Presidential Debate, But Only One of Us Had a Hard Time Sleeping

Try this antidote to insomnia.

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It’s 4:13 AM. I’m always up this early. It’s when I write. However, this morning, I’m also, as they say, stewing in my juices.

My partner Rebecca and I watched last night’s debate between the two candidates for the American presidency. We’re Biden supporters, so perhaps you know what I mean.

When we turned in, Rebecca said she would begin her insomnia routine. She knew she would need help falling asleep. I tossed and turned for another hour or so, helpless.

I’ve been up since 3, an hour earlier than usual. I have no antidote for insomnia.

This story is about hers.

You can adapt it to your circumstances.

I’ll start with a bit of background.

The Context

That’s Rebecca, in the photo, at rest.

She is 72, soon to be 73.

And a biking fiend.

Later this morning, she’ll do another 23 miles in preparation for next month’s Register’s Annual Bike Ride Across Iowa. 2024 will be the 51st RAGBRAI.

Rebecca will join 20,000 riders for seven days across southern Iowa, from the Missouri River to the Mississippi. They will bike 434 miles including 18, 375 feet of climbing.

Iowa isn’t Kansas. And it isn’t flat.

This will be her sixth consecutive RAGBRAIAccompanying her are three friends. Meet the intrepid members of The Wheel Thing at a rest stop in 2023.

Bill, Rebecca, Scott, and Colleen. Photo by Tom.

Each year, Rebecca cycles 800 miles to prepare. She’s now at 585. Fortunately, our community is surrounded by a beautiful circular 11-mile trail. Unfortunately, for those of us not preparing to trek across our state, Trout Run includes many steep switchbacks.

Rebecca was pulling away from me yesterday on one of the steep hills at the beginning of the trail.

Photo by the author

We start together, but quickly, she hits her flow state and leaves me behind. She takes a five-minute break for water and a small energy snack when she finishes the first go-around.

By then, I’d landed and contentedly ridden back home. Rebecca reversed the route, going up where she went down and vice versa.

The Insomnia Cure

Rebecca calls herself a head person. If you know the Enneagram personality system, she’s a number Five. She meets the world through her mind and thinks everything through.

And through.

Sometimes, she finds it hard to slow her thinking down.

After 90 minutes of Biden and Trump last night, she said, “I knew I would need help falling asleep.”

So, what did you do? I ask.

I started with my shoe clip in the driveway.

And then I asked myself which way we went at the trailhead, right or left?

I get 3/4 mile along the river and ask, WHO ELSE IS THERE BUT JOE?

I gently tell myself, You’re not supposed to be thinking.

I see the squirrel.

And Dug Road looks so beautiful. So green. The lighting was fantastic.

And WHAT WILL THE NEW YORK TIMES SAYS?

Again, I tell myself you can’t think about this.

I return to the ride.

Seven miles in, I fell asleep at the top of the steepest switchback.

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Rebecca told me that if she doesn’t fall asleep right away on a typical night, she retraces that day’s bike ride precisely as she remembers it and is asleep by mile two. Last night, it took to mile seven.

Hours later, but still too early, she woke up.

When that happens, I go back to where I stopped, in this case, to the top of that switchback, and continue the ride. Almost immediately, I fell back asleep.

Why does this strategy work for Rebecca?

When I bike, I leave the world behind.”

That’s Rebecca’s answer to why biking has become a passion.

Now, she’s turned this dedication into a strategy against sleeplessness.

She has trained her mind to return to her latest ride. That’s important. It’s the particulars of the ride, the squirrel, for example, that she focuses on. And if she reawakens, she returns to the exact ride spot where she fell asleep and continues.

Isn’t this a form of meditation? Cued not by a word or mantra but by images of a recent experience.

And not just any experience. But one that has been imprinted in the synopses of her brain through hours and hours of enjoyment.

Ready to be called upon when needed.

When I need to cut off the circle of thoughts, I return to the imagined comfort of my bicycle memories.

Do you have a passion that removes you from the world of trouble?

For me, it’s walking.

The second Presidential debate is scheduled for Tuesday, September 9th.

Rebecca’s ready.

I’m working on it.

Living a Three-Dimensional Life

What makes you who you are?

Photo of, by, and for the author

Serious

Patricia Ross, a seasoned therapist, shares a compelling story of personal transformation, drawing from the experiences of one of her clients.

In her narrative, Ross vividly portrays a person who moves from a binary existence to a more complex reality, where he starts recognizing his role in shaping his future.

Gradually, the man embarks on a journey of self-discovery, exploring his preferences and interests, thereby transitioning towards a more enriched, three-dimensional life.

Step by step, he asks why he is the way he is. As he becomes more curious about himself, he becomes more interested in others.

Patricia has written a terrific story, and I loved the three-dimensional metaphor.

Who is that person who looks back at us from the mirrors?

He’s complicated.

In big and small ways.

He doesn’t like the confinement of labels.

When even he sees only a single reflection.

If he’s that way, then you are too.

Silly and, sadly, true

For example, take another gander at that fellow in the mirror.

He doesn’t like in-person shopping because he has a hard time saying no.

Often, his first response needs to be corrected.

But the striped shirt looked good on the window model.

He also felt guilty about buying from Amazon.

Purchasing locally makes him feel superior, like owning a Subaru Forester in southwest Iowa.

Besides, clad in that shirt, he imagined himself looking like soccer great Lionel Messi on the beach in the Michelob Ultra ad.

However, he remembered that Messi, also 5’7″, wears Argentina’s vertical stripe uniform.

Photo from Wikimedia Commons

He found the shirt on a rack.

It’s funny how, inside the store, it appeared green.

When he tried it on, it stayed green, and what about those stripes?

Would Lionel wear horizontal stripes?

He had better text Rebecca; she’d tell him what to do.

While waiting for her reply, he spotted an orange shirt.

Orange was the color of the Netherlands national soccer team. Or was it Holland’s?

It was a muted orange, and he wouldn’t look like a pumpkin.

Photo by the author

He’d never worn orange.

Even Darrell, the Trump supporter who lives next door, wore more colorful shirts.

Rebecca replied a few minutes later: “The green shirt is OK, the orange is better, without the red hat.”

When she says OK, I know she means no.

He’ll get a compatible cap to complete the orange outfit.

The store owner said both shirts looked good on him.

And

Buy two, and the second one is half-price.

He knew the guy was only trying to make a buck, and keeping a men’s clothing store afloat was challenging in a small town.

Back to serious

So, he bought two shirts and a navy baseball hat.

He tried to like the green and parallel stripes.

But finally gave it away.

His tiny contribution to President Obama’s spread the wealth idea.

The other day, draped in orange and topped with blue, he waved to Darrell, the Trump guy.

He wondered about all the things regarding Darrell that he didn’t know.

Darrell, who did look like a pumpkin, smiled and waved back.

Will I Outlive Our New Refrigerator?

Is slowing time down a good idea?

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You begin to notice auto doppelgangers whenever you buy a new car.

“I didn’t realize there were so many silver Subaru Foresters,” I thought six years ago.

It’s funny what controls our attention.

And alters our perspective.

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Tuesday, November 5, 2024, will be my 19th American presidential election.

This quadrennial event is on my radar because I taught politics to college students for 40 years.

Soccer has the right idea for aging fans like me. Its National Team Championships are held in four-year cycles, each lasting a month.

The 2024 European Football Championship started on June 14. Today, I will fit my life around three beautiful games.

What about even rarer events, like the 17-year cicada brood and the 20-year total solar eclipse?

may be 94 at the next concealment of the sun.

How many of each do I have left?

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The refrigerator you see in the photo is two years old.

Already, the deluxe ice maker is misbehaving.

With more features and technology that can break down, today’s icebox lasts a little over a decade, half the lifetime of my mother’s trusty, simpler machine.

Will I outlast even a machine that was built to break down?

Yesterday, for a Father’s Day gift, my son took me to a screening of 1981’s Raiders of the Lost Ark.

The two-hour film passed in the blink of an eye.

As has Ben’s 34 years.

And the 43 years from when I first sat in wonder at that boulder rushing toward the audience.

It’s already June 17th here in middle America. The summer has not officially started, and it seems half gone.

How do we slow time down?

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Or is that even a good idea?

Occasionally, I lose track of time when I write.

The late psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi called it being in the “flow.”

I am so immersed in what I’m doing that time flies.

It’s like watching Raiders for the second time yesterday.

Or spending time with my son.

And it’s just happened again.

Time refused to slow down, even when I wrote about wishing that time would slow down.

Is there a lesson?

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One of my mentors, Mark Lund, gave me advice about 25 years ago that I’ve never forgotten but must continually relearn.

Mark directed my college’s Study Abroad program. I had just returned from my first trip with students to Northern Ireland, proud that I had not spent all the money budgeted for our three-week travel course.

He looked at me and said:

Students pay us for the experience. Your task is to spend ALL their money wisely by giving them the best experience possible.

The money was meant to be spent. All of it!

Why would time be any different?

Justice Delayed is Justice Denied

Today’s random word is billion.

Photo by the author of Room 306, Lorraine Motel, Memphis, TN

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Today’s story is Historical Fiction.

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6:04.30 PM

April 4, 1968

Room 306, Lorraine Motel

Martin Luther King, Jr. has lived 1.2 billion seconds.

He has only 30 more.

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Mary Louise Hunt: “Dr. King, I’m 18, a Memphis State freshman, and I want to help. Sometimes, I feel hopeless.

Martin: “Mary, I do as well. Hope is hard.”

Mary: “Why do they hate us?”

“They’re scared, and they hate themselves. I’ve seen it in their faces.”

“How do you keep from hating yourself?”

“I can’t, Mary. I’m a child of God, just as you are. They are as well. We are their salvation.”

“Bless you, Martin.”